It is truly a tough endeavour
once you have invested your trust to a dear friend, a family member or to a
special someone and then, it gets broken. Trust is just like a glass, it is
delicate and fragile. You have to handle it with care because the moment it has
been given to you, you now own certain responsibilities. Trust, a five letter
word is a serious case.
May 22, 2012--I was pissed with our smartbro broadband
because I cannot access to the internet and as I was preparing to sleep, I
checked the time and found out that PBB Teens 4 is still on air. I went to the
sala and tuned in and luckily, my hopes didn't go down. I saw the father of
Yvez in the confession room talking about Yvez and with the way he handled his
matters with girls. I also heard his Dad giving a fatherly advice not just for
his son but for the rest of the teenagers out there. With the kind of
conversation he and Kuya had, I predicted that there must be something wrong
with what Yvez is doing in the house. Certain episodes were presented, there I
saw Yvez and Myrtle, and they were in the sofa. Yvez was asking her if saying I
love you is wrong and she strongly said, yes because one cannot simply tell if
it is already love.
Later on, Kuya talked to Yvez and asked him what the day
today is and if there is something special happening in his life. There you go,
he said it is their monthsary and he wants to sing their song (When I'm With
You) as a monthsary gift. After recalling the song, he made a face palm just
because he remembered that he actually let Myrtle sing that song for him. He
then grabbed his guitar and asked Ryan to cover him. They went to the sala and
asked Myrtle and Mariz to go to the bedroom first so that they can concentrate.
While playing the song, the boys didn't have a clue that the two girls can
actually hear them. Mariz kept on teasing Myrtle about the song, that Yvez must
have prepared a surprise for him and that it is so kilig. Myrtle was carried
away and so they went to the sala and Myrtle hurriedly went near to Yvez. Yvez
then said to her that they must go back to the room because they had just
broken his presentation for his bestfriend. The look of Myrtle's face, one can
really feel how disgusted she is, how disappointed she is. You see, with just a
flash, she discovered how such a guy made her a fool.
She then went back to the room and realized that the song
Yvez just sung was the same song he asked her to sing weeks ago. Wow, that was
fantastic. How could a guy asked a girl he liked inside the house sing the song
which is the theme song of him and his girlfriend? Way too insensitive, right?
Yvez was again asked by Kuya what is the true status between him and Kim.
First, he said they were just bestfriends. Second, he said, they were in a
relationship before because they fell for each other and lastly, when Kuya said
Kim confirmed that Yvez is her boyfriend, Yvez then said that they are really
in a relationship. Bravo, very well said Yvez!
The pieces make sense now. Myrtle then went outside and
talked to the girls. She was crying and blaming herself. She accused herself
being the third party, the man stealer which is so untrue. She recalled on how
guys treated her before that at the end of day, still nothing happens. She even
said that is the very reason why she doesn't like to entertain Yvez in the
first place but because he explained to her that he didn't have any affair
outside the house, she trusted him. Of course, I do understand how she feels.
We can't deny it, Yvez is good looking and charming.
While Yvez was inside the men's bedroom, a voice prompt was
played. Viola! Kim greeted Yvez a happy monthsary. Poor Yvez, he was trying to
apologize Myrtle but then again, another unexpected thing happened. But well,
every action there is a corresponding reaction.
You see guys? Why is it very easy for you to make fun of us,
especially our feelings? Just because you are the ones whose going to chase us
doesn't mean you now have the permission of making us believe in your lies, in
your made up stories. Just because you are guys, and that society dictates that
having lots of girls make you masculine doesn't mean you have to adhere into
it. Just because you have the license of confessing to the girl you like about
your feelings doesn't mean you have to express them drastically without even
making it sure it they are real. Just because you are good looking, talented,
you got that sizzling sex appeal doesn't mean you have to collect all the girls
you like and those girls whom you can victimized too.
I am not only talking to all the guys out there. For us
girls, the experience of Myrtle serves us a big lesson too. We don't have to
undergo what she has undertaken, just reflect upon her experience and you'll see
how hard it is when you are not thinking practically. She was even blaming
herself, and I can really feel her because I have undergone being deceived too.
The sad part is, we were the ones being fooled but then, we ended up feeling
guilty. This is the reality; people will come and hurt us. But it doesn’t end
there. They may have broken our trust. They may have tested our patience. They
may left us in the end. But heads up, smile! The bright side is, they may have
played, hurt, tested and fooled us, but at the end of the day, they injected
lifelong lessons in our hearts and we will become stronger than ever. J
