You Don't Really Know Me Very Well

I know the verdict is no matter what you say, at the end of the day it's still on how I perceive myself. But can I just say something? How I wish I just could let it all pass but in one way or another, I'd love that at times you also shut up your mouth.Cos sincerely speaking, you don't have the right to assess my whole personality just because you've seen a tiny portion of myself.Yes, to some aspects you may be deemed right. But geez! I dint even ask for your opinions and rationalizations. So insensitive of you actually. The more I'm exposed to you guys, the more I find my true friends of great value. Still, THANK YOU! :-)

WARMTH's Fellowship OVERLOAD!

:)

Ready for take off to Simala Shrine!

At McDo Punta Prinsesa. 

Ooops! Something happened. One tire slipped away while we were fetching Kuya Sho. Oh no!!!

A midst the delay, we were still able to pose! Smile ladies!

At Naga.

Look at that! We are way too positive! \m/

A pose while waiting for the new transpo to fetch us.

Hungry people! One hour has passed, still waiting. But it's okay. If we have lotssss of food! :D

Finally, we made it to Carcar! Stopped and fetch Aynd. :)

We had lunch at Mang Inasal. Nomnomnom. 

Nourished souls.

Group pose! Finally we are ready for the shrine! even though it is super hot, we still managed to smile. :)

Finally, reached our destination. Behave individuals in the house. You know whyyyyy.

We offered our individual prayers.

*notice something in this picture?*

Kuya Sho and Ate April prayed ardently to Mama Mary. :)

Stairway to Mama Mary. :)

A pic with Mama Mary's Grotto. :)

Wishing well. Well, well, well.

And last stop, Theotokos Shrine at Perrelos, Carcar.

Thank you so much, Warmth Family! 

It was indeed a suuuuper blessed day with my warmth family. I really missed our bonding and I was so grateful I was able to join in their fellowship. No words can fully describe this day. But sum it all up, it was a day of blessing-thanksgiving-friendship-bonding! ♥

People Being Unfair

Applying what I have learned in Com 101. :D

I grew up hearing people say, "The world will never be fair" and unconsciously, I have attracted the idea in my mind. My childhood memories reminded me that, yes, the thought is actually true. However, I had a sudden shift in my beliefs due to my experiences in life.

When you don't like a certain attitude of a person, what would you do? If a friend has offended you, would you frankly tell her/him or, spread the deed to others? I have been a victim of false reports, issues, made up stories (name them all) and, the good news is, until now. Those past experiences I had moved me to change, to use and think of other tactics in dealing with them. Plus, I am also grateful that I have studied Communication 101 when I was still a Mass Comm student. The lessons were practical and applicable in real life scenarios. 

Now let's get in touch to the real matter. Ever wonder why am I talking about fairness here? If in case, your guess is that I was/am a victim of injustice, you are absolutely right. I believe that is undeniably unfair for a person not to know when someone that person is treating well is actually spreading evils about him/her. I personally think, if you have a problem with a friend, you must confront him/her before anything else. I adhere to the belief that, if it's not about you, then you don't have the right to spread the issue. 

Remember, a simple misunderstanding could ruin everything just because you chose to actually destroy the image of the person to others instead of letting him/her explain his/her side and ask for your apology. Remember, words have the power to bring someone down. Remember, when you truly care for a friend, a single mistake won't make you hate him/her right away. Remember, words can only be forgiven but can never be forgotten.

And I was reminded by Sir Paulo Coelho, "Never explain your side to people. They only love to hear what they want to hear" and "If everyone likes you, there must be something wrong."

Oh Barili :3

Barili was great and fun with Dianne, Ingrid and with my Babe! :*

Sweets after we dined at Foodtrip. We visited Dianne's crib and we were offered with lots of sweets. Srsly, I couldn't even finish eating my salad. :o

 The owner of ze house! Thanks Dianne for the frank chikas, food and videoke trip! :>

The tour guide when we went to Tilapia Fishing Spot. Caught one fish. So sad. :(

And tadaaaa! Le babe of mine. Hahaha. No more description available. :*

GROUP PHOTO! SMILE :)

Thanks for the day babe! Till next time. Hope you'll finally meet my whole family. SOON! 

I love you! :*

01.02.13

When Love Overtakes Friendship

We were once so close

Just like we were being glued.

Always there for each other,

When one needs a sister.

You always consult me with your problems,

And I always say something to your matters.

You do your best to be a good companion

While I also show my sweetest appreciation.

Yes, we were once that kind,

A friendship that is so hard to find

And time may keep us apart,

No one can take away the memories in our hearts.

My dear friend, I have loved you for so long

Our friendship makes me strong.

When I am down and weary,

I know I got somebody,

When people throw me like a trash,

I got you with just a flash.

When I have a new buddy,

You always remind me that you are somebody.

Oh how time passes us by so quickl

yWe were once young and crazy!

But now, we are certified ladies!

Dear friend, am I truly deserving of your treatment?

Since then, I was thinking endlessly how to cure this ailment.

I forgot that I was also broken hearted

Just to mend your heart and keep you comforted.

I sacrificed my time for you,

Just to keep you out of the blue.

If you didn't need my presence in the first place,

I should haven't engaged myself in such race.

But let me remind you one thing,

In this course of life,

I have learned one thing:

"At the end of your life, you are a victim of the choices you've made."

I didn't let our friendship go to waste,

But you just threw it in haste.

I didn't want to see you crying,

But you made me feel like I am dying.

I tried to call your attention,

But you didn't bother my intentions.

All I want is to be there for you,

Just like what a true friend should do.

But if you don't love me anymore,

Then I'd rather not care forevermore!

Love and friendship

What is really the best choice?

Friend, before you met your lover,

You said friends forever!

I didn't let you choose between love and friendship

It's like who you should save when you're in a sinking ship,

Because in the first place, it's sad and true

YOU'LL CHOOSE HIM WITHOUT ANY FURTHER ADO!